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Now, we're going to categorize perinatal loss a little bit differently
because it's important to understand that the type of loss
can very much impact the childbearing family and also our management plan.
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So we discussed abortions.
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So this refers, in this case, to a loss of the baby prior to 20 weeks gestation.
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We can also experience a stillbirth, and this is a death that occurs after 20 weeks.
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So you can imagine that in this case, the baby looks genetically
and anatomically completely normal and well, just very small.
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So it creates a very different situation for the family.
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Also, sometimes families receive the unfortunate news that their baby is genetically abnormal.
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Maybe anatomically or structurally to the point that the baby is not going to be viable.
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And so there may be a death that recurs related to that.
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And finally, a family may decide to terminate a pregnancy electively.
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And so this may be because of a serious genetic abnormality
or it may be because of a desire to do so.
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I want to talk for a minute about elective abortions. This is often a very taboo subject.
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I know with my students and in my school, it is, and it may be the same case for you.
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But it does happen, so it's important that we talk about it.
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So one in four clients have experienced a termination of their pregnancy at some point in their life.
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That's 25%. That's a lot of people.
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So 11.3% of abortions happen per 1,000 clients that are between the ages of 15 and 44.
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Again, I want you to appreciate the numbers of people that this impacts.
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Now, the reactions to elective abortions are all over the spectrum
in terms of people that feel relief, people that feel guilt, people that feel sad, people that are happy.
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There are all kinds of ways that people feel and we need to be prepared to honor that.
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We also need to be prepared to offer support for people that are experiencing a termination.
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Just because they've chosen to terminate the pregnancy, doesn't mean that they're happy about it.
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And so we need to be there to provide support to help them work through it.
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We want to assess for any psychological distress around the time of the abortion visit,
but also, doing that a little bit later as sometimes, those feelings are delayed.
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Now, there are other kinds of losses that may happen that are not really about the baby dying.
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So remember, the family comes in with this hope of having a perfect,
wonderful Cletus, perfectly wonderful birth,
and unfortunately, that doesn't happen for everybody.
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So think about the families that may experience a preterm birth
and how that looks so different than the wonderful,
maybe low intervention or even an epidural birth that they had planned.
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Also a cesarean birth. Most people don't come to the hospital saying,
"Oh, I'd like to have surgery. That's what I want to do."
Now, some people may make that choice, but most people don't.
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And imagine laboring after hours and then ending up with a Cesarean birth at the end.
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For some clients, this is really, really traumatic and very difficult, and it's another kind of loss.
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Also think about clients who have had a complication.
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So maybe they've had a lot of providers that had to be at the bedside,
or maybe they've had a near miss with their baby,
or maybe they've been listening to the fetal heart monitor,
and there've been lots of decelerations or all kinds of scary things.
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All of these are actually types of losses,
and we want to be prepared to support the families through each of them.