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Now, let's talk about
non-substance use disorders,
like gambling.
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Behavioral disorders
like sex and food,
internet, mobile devices,
pornography, and shopping.
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Of course, it's really hard to think
of any of these as disorders.
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But when you stop
and think about the fact
that when we're talking about
substance use disorders,
or eating disorders,
it is the misuse of the substance,
it is the misuse of the eating.
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And so if we go back, and we think
about what I'm saying, gambling,
well, if you can go to a horse race
and bet a little bit of money
and have an afternoon
where you are being entertained,
that's not a disorder.
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But when your whole paycheck
starts going into gambling,
when the relationship
that you have with gambling
takes over the relationship
with any of the people in your life,
it is a disorder.
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The same with sex.
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When a person is normally having
their normal sexual life,
that is not a disorder.
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But when sex, attaining sex,
and doing things only for the sex
becomes the main focus of your life,
it is a disorder.
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Same with food,
internet,
if you can't get off the internet,
it's a problem.
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But in this day and age,
it's impossible not to use
the internet for something
even our phones
are now connected to the internet.
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What makes it a disorder
is the impact it has
on our average daily life.
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Our ability to get in and do
our activities of daily living,
and have the relationships
with the people in our life.
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Mobile devices.
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Many people right now have
a disorder with their telephone.
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They're on it constantly.
They sleep with it.
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And it takes over
even if they are
sitting at a table with someone
they might be texting them.
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Pornography is especially difficult
because pornography is accessible
now through the internet.
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Now, if you are having a hard time
disengaging from the pornography,
it is becoming a disorder,
well, the more it is easy to access,
the more likely you are
to fall into that disorder.
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And shopping.
Who doesn't like shopping?
Shopping and staying within,
my mother used to say,
"Cut your cloth
according to your measure."
So, if you know that you have
a certain amount of money
that you want to spend in shopping,
and maybe you have
a party coming up or a wedding
and you want
a new dress or a new suit,
then you start saving
and you buy what you need.
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If it is a disorder,
you can't stop shopping.
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It doesn't matter if you have
the money to pay for the things
that you want,
you will continue.
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So, in that way, and when
we start think of it in this way,
let's think about
what symptoms that we see
and see if you can identify,
how closely related this is
to substance use disorders,
when we talk about
the criteria and symptoms?
Engaging in the behavior
more than intended.
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Unsuccessful attempts
to cut back on that behavior.
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Spending a lot of time
seeking and craving that behavior.
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Continuing to engage
in that behavior,
despite the negative
outcomes and consequences
that you're experiencing.
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Making that behavior a priority
over all other activities
and relationships in your life.
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Increasing risk taking behaviors
in order to be able to engage in
and hide this behavior.
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Continuing to engage
in this behavior,
even if there's been
loss of relationships,
priority relationships,
like your family,
or maybe social relationships.
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Perhaps you've lost your job
or even failed out of school.
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Requiring more frequent runs
of this behavior
in order to get the same thrill.
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And then, when this behavior
is not available to you,
experiencing withdrawal symptoms,
having mood changes,
being excessively irritable
if you are unable to engage
in the behavior.
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Now that sounds a lot like
substance use disorders, doesn't it?
It sounds like eating disorders.
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Remember, at the very
beginning of this lecture,
we were talking about the idea
that a substance use disorder
varies by substance.
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Well, in this behavioral category,
it's the same criteria
that now is going to be able
to be different
secondary to what the behavior is.
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I will share with you a story
of a patient that I had,
who had a gambling disorder.
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She also had a son.
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She was working very hard on getting
the gambling disorder under control.
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And unfortunately,
these disorders often
are concurrent.
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And she ended up hanging out
with somebody
who said they wanted to go
to Atlantic City.
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They were only going to go
for a few hours.
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She lived in South Jersey.
It wasn't a big deal.
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It was only maybe an hour
from her home.
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So, she asked her mom to come by.
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She said, "I'll be back in
a couple of hours.
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You can go home, and I'll be in."
Well, a day went by.
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Two days went by.
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Three days went by,
her mom had no idea where she was.
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And she was still betting.
She was gambling.
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She could not stop.
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This is what we see,
when the non-substance
use disorder takes over.
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There is that inability to stop.
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And as we say,
"One is too many.
A thousand is not enough."
It is the same,
if you have a disorder like this,
you must not start the engagement
because once you
start the engagement,
the disengagement
is almost impossible.