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So, when we think about
Avoidant Personality Disorder,
and we think about what kind of
characteristics that person might show,
we're going to see low
self-esteem, shyness,
as the person actually gets
older, the shyness gets greater.
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We're going to see that they have a sense
that they're not as good as anybody else.
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So there is this
feeling of inferiority.
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And they don't want to
engage in social actions.
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They don't want to be
with a lot of people,
they don't want to
meet a new person,
they'd rather avoid
anything like that.
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Also, we usually see
co-occurring depressive moments,
either episodes or
actual depression
with anxiety,
and intermittent anger.
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The person does not want to be forced
to do what they don't want to do
and what they don't
want to do is engage.
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And how hard is it to live
a life with no engagement?
It makes it almost impossible.
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You need to be able to have a job,
to go out, to connect with others.
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If you have faith or religion,
you want to be able to go to
your church or mosque or temple.
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If you want to be able to
go if you have a family,
you want to be able to
go to a PTA meeting.
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But a person with an
avoidant personality disorder
has found ways in life to avoid
doing what makes them anxious.
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And then they become
preoccupied, with what?
With the idea that they're going
to get rejected and humiliated,
which makes it even worse
to ever engage with anyone.
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So think about how difficult
life is for a person
who has an avoidant
personality disorder,
whose main source of coping
with the world around them
is to avoid the
world around them.