00:01
So, let's think about
what kind of nursing diagnosis
we're going to use for our patients
who may be suffering
with Cluster B diagnoses.
00:10
They don't have good coping skills.
00:12
They have maladaptive coping skills
that have given rise
to their behaviors and
their thought patterns, as adults.
00:20
They also have a
disturbed personal identity,
either they think they are
the best,
either they think they
are that and more,
or they think they are
totally worthless.
00:32
We also have that
chronic low self-esteem,
even with our patients
who suffer with narcissism,
because that self-esteem
says that
it has to be perfect,
or it's terrible.
00:45
If you take away one little item,
the whole house of cards might fall.
00:52
Because of this lability
of emotions, this changing,
I'm the greatest
and I am the worst,
there is a chance that these
persons will hurt themselves,
they will harm themselves.
01:06
There is a risk for
self-mutilation,
which we call
non-suicidal self-injury.
01:13
It's not that they're
trying to kill themselves,
it is that they are
trying to hurt themselves,
either to feel excited and alive,
or actually to punish themselves.
01:26
But with a non-suicidal self-injury,
and with hopelessness,
we always have a risk for suicide.
01:33
And if we have any thoughts
that this person
might be contemplating
taking their life by suicide,
we must ask them,
"Are you thinking about
killing yourself?
Are you thinking about suicide?"
It is not going to put
the thought in their head.
01:51
Instead,
if they are thinking about it,
they will say, "Yes."
I've had patients who say,
"Doesn't everyone?"
And my only answer can be,
"Not everyone.
02:03
Can you tell me how you might think
of doing it?
Do you have any ideas
of how you want to kill yourself?
And if they have an idea,
I immediately put them on a
one to one.
02:15
If they say
they want to kill themselves,
I make sure they have
constant observation.
02:20
I never want to be the last person
that anyone has spoken to
before they have taken
their own life by suicide.
02:28
And it doesn't take
a lot for us to be able
to sit and listen,
assess, evaluate,
and find someone
who can sit and watch them.
02:38
They have very impaired
social interactions.
02:42
All of the different
behaviors and characteristics
we just talked about,
really indicate that
it is hard for them
to connect with others.
02:50
And connecting with others
is a great protective factor.
02:54
They have a high risk for
other directed violence.
03:00
Hurting someone else, especially
if they had had a conduct disorder,
and they became someone
who is suffering with
antisocial personality disorder.
03:12
And, again,
this self-directed violence,
the idea that they hurt themselves,
that idea they hurt each other,
and the idea that they might get
into relationships
that actually cause pain to them,
which relieves them of having
to hurt themselves,
because now they have someone
else to inflict pain on them.
03:34
So, if we are looking
at that patient
with a borderline
personality disorder,
we watched that this person
is making steady progress.
03:44
But one day the person's
boyfriend calls and says,
"It's over.
I'm breaking up with you."
Now, although she hasn't hurt
herself in over two months.
03:54
After that call, she makes
repeated lacerations on her forearm.
04:00
Which statement about this
and most maladaptive behaviors
that we can see in
borderline personality disorder
are accurate?
So a client with
personality disorder
rarely achieves
lasting improvements.
04:19
Or, although dysfunctional,
most behaviors are the
client's best efforts to cope.
04:26
Or clients with
borderline personality disorder
are at the mercy of others.
04:33
Or sometimes
what seems to be improvement
is only maladaptions
and manipulation.
04:41
So let's think about this.
04:43
If we are thinking
about what we want,
for working in psychiatric nursing.
04:52
If we think about how this
person has come in front of us
and that they are at a
crisis point in their life.
05:01
We have to understand that they're
maladaptive coping mechanisms
that they have put together
over their lifetime,
a way of trying
to help them survive,
are just not working anymore.
05:16
And so if you chose B,
although dysfunctional,
most behaviors are the
client's best effort to cope.
05:24
You are correct.
05:27
So, which statement by a patient
with borderline personality disorder
shows that their
treatment plan is working?
What if they say to you,
"I think you're
the best nurse ever."
Or maybe they say,
"I hate my doctor.
05:45
She never listens to me
and gives me what I asked for."
Or perhaps,
"I feel empty, I want to cut myself.
So I called you."
Or finally, "I'm never going to
get high on drugs again."
Well, if you're thinking about
all of these statements,
you know that first one,
"I think
you're the best nurse ever."
That's part of splitting.
You're either the best or the worst.
06:16
So it can't be that.
06:17
"I hate my doctor.
06:18
She never listens to me,
or gives me what I asked for."
Again, the doctor is the
worst person in the world.
06:24
That again, is splitting.
06:26
And that last one,
"I am never ever, ever, ever
going to get high again on drugs,
not ever."
Well, that's magical thinking
for a person
who has a substance use disorder,
in addition with
borderline personality disorder.
06:41
So we want to believe
that the patient who says,
"I feel empty, and I want to
cut myself. So I called you."
Demonstrates that they are
developing a new coping skill.
06:54
One of the things that
I haven't said yet,
that is really important
is that sometimes when we have
patients with personality disorders,
putting together
a contract really helps.
07:05
Being able to have that therapeutic
relationship with that person,
and being able to say to them,
"I know you.
07:11
There are going to be days
that you want to cut yourself."
What I'm going to ask you to do
is on those moments,
when you think
cutting is the answer,
I want you to call me.
I want you to text me.
07:23
I want you to ring the buzzer,
and come out to the front desk.
07:27
And if we can slow down that
automatic coping mechanism
that's maladaptive,
we've helped them to make
one step
towards getting
a little bit better.