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So let's take histrionic
personality disorder first.
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What kind of characteristics
are we going to be seeing
in the person with
this kind of disorder?
Well, they're going to be emotional.
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And they're going to use
their emotions
to get attention.
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So it might be the person who,
when you say to them,
"I'm sorry, but you can't read
that book right now,
because everyone is
in group therapy.
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And I'd like to take the book away."
They might jump up and say,
"You can't have, you take the book,
I need out this book.
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Why? Why are you gonna
take my book away from me?
And they might start crying.
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What they've just done is they've
taken all of the attention
away from the fact
that the group is together to talk.
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And they brought
all the attention on them.
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And poor child,
why is everyone picking on you?
This is very typical,
in all the B group,
the B clusters.
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Where the attention goes
from the group,
or from the person who needs it,
and suddenly lands
to put enormous empathy
and sometimes pity and sympathy
on the person who is crying.
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A person who is having
histrionic personality disorder,
usually only has comfort
when they are in the center
of everyone's attention.
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And so they're very uncomfortable
when they're in a group setting
where everyone is being able to
exchange things.
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They might use their own
physical appearance or their speech,
to make sure that
other people watch them.
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They might be talking
much louder.
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Or they might end up
wearing bright lipstick,
or earrings
that attract a lot of attention,
to make sure that everyone is
watching them, and only them.
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Everything they do
is extremely dramatic.
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This doesn't mean that
they don't hold important jobs.
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In fact, in some cases,
they can hold
extremely important jobs,
because they've learned
how to manipulate an environment
to have everything be about them.
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What kind of occupation
do you think
a histrionic personality disorder
might actually be really good in?
And I'm going to leave
that up to you
to start thinking about that.
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They usually have
very bold behaviors.
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There's nothing
small and reticent
about a person with the
histrionic personality disorder.
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They want to make sure
the world sees them.
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And they don't care
if it's negative attention.
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Attention is the thing
that's important,
not negative or positive.
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Because it always
has to be about them,
because it always
is so dramatic.
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It's very hard for these people
to actually get and develop
a meaning relationship
with another person.
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Because this kind of
over emotional behaviors,
this kind of
demand constant attention
can be very smothering.
It can just exhaust a person
who is trying to be part
of their life.
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Now, here's the other
interesting aspect.
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And this is something that goes
with all the personality disorders,
and usually with
any psychiatric disorder.
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It's one of the first things
that we think of.
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Does this person have insight
into the role
that their disorder is playing
in their relationships with others
and in their life?
And usually the person
does not have any insight.
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So when you say to a person
who is suffering with
histrionic personality disorder,
it seems that every single time
that you get into a relationship,
within three months,
you're having this terrible breakup.
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Do you think that
there's anything in there
that we might be able to see
that you have control over?
They will tell you?
Absolutely not.
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It's not my fault.
I don't know what happens.
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I'm perfect.
Everything is okay with me.
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I don't know
why this is happening.